I ditched road cycling years ago, too. Tired of dealing with vehicular traffic and wondering if I was going to make it home alive. I took up mountain biking instead and haven't looked back--playing in the dirt is way more fun!
I'm really close to ditching the road bike.
I've done long distance tours, and have ridden on the road a LOT in years past. Now I'm wanting to take the 10yr old with me and no way am I putting him on the road with all these distracted drivers. My last tour was "pre-iphone" days so the attention of a driver was far more consistent than it is now.
My riding buddy from road riding moved away to CA a few years ago, and I haven't ridden much since. Before then he had a couple Mountain bikes, and he let me ride his old Stumpjumper Hardtail (It was an early '00's model) and I remember it being a great time. I'm ready to jump back in, and I have the approval from the boss to go ahead and get something.
My road bike has top shelf components (well they were 15yrs ago), and I get the importance of getting quality pieces and parts that will last. Road bike is a Cannondale CAAD9 with Dura-Ace shifters, and Ultegra driveline. Have some custom FAS wheels on there, and various carbon bits here and there to smooth it out.
I really like this bike:
Grizl CF SL but it's a bit more than I want to spend right out of the gate.
This one is closer to my budget, but still looks interesting as well:
Grand Canyon
Friend recommended this one:
Rockhopper Expert 29 | Specialized.com
I like the idea of a gravel bike with a light suspension and knobby-ish tires, but think I might land on a full-on Mt Bike so I can ride in the local parks and not break it. Any thoughts?
Also.......What kind of racks are you guys using to transport these things? I'm looking at an Allen Sports 4-carrier for $35 on Facebook Marketplace, and I'm also seeing it range up to $1,200 for a Kuat tray style. Where's the happy medium here? I've always either had a roof rack or a pickup truck and just laid the bike in there. Not sure I want to drop the coin on another roof rack, and a hitch rack would let me transfer it to the wifes car if needed. THoughts here?