OMG, so many parallels here.
My wife has taken on the role of social coordinator. Between two friend groups, soccer, school, and family I think we have about 3.5 birthdays per month to deal with. Always fighting for weekend time. She keeps the calender, and I'm damn grateful she does, I couldn't keep track of this much "stuff"
We were big into the social boating when the 3yr old was a tiny baby. Neighbhors with a pontoon had a 20yr old girl that LOVED to hold the baby, so we would motor out, tie up, and spend the day with the rest of the adults and her tending to the baby. It was a great "relief" from being new parents again at 40. Now she's gone, and the baby is a toddler we need to keep moving on the water a little bit more to keep everyone entertained. Friends are stuck in the "go park and drink" routine since they are without kids. Just different styles I suppose, but we're running low on "active" boat friends as well.
My best friend has (2) ducatis. I have more miles on his '10 Monster 696 than he does at this point. He bought a '12 SF 848 and his wife won't let him ride alone, so he recruited me to ride with him. We've ridden twice in the last two years. Maybe a total of 250 miles between the two rides. We used to ride 2-3 times a month and be gone for a full day on a long ride. Now we're lucky to get a Thursday night free, and then one the bikes won't start so we say the heck with it and sit around a campfire in the back yard and chat. I really miss riding.....wonder if he'll sell me the monster?
he's so bad about coming home and doing nothing. He's really getting into soccer, and I can see the wheels turning in his head. he knows WHAT to do at this point (getting open, maintaining pressure on the other team, etc), but he doesn't quite have the good mechanics to make it happen, and he needs to step up his aggression just a click to really move to the next level. I'll be sure to pass along the juggling tips, he's already been fussing at me for being bored since we cut his screen time back to daily limit.
Be safe out there, and keep in mind......next season is just a few months away. Start planning those trips NOW!