I have no dog in this fight, but been gone a LONG time from here, working my ass off, catching up on a years worth of posts, and this caught my eye... a few things jump to my attention.....
(im not direct quoting just verbatim quoting)
"I ran from the pool in bimini to find wifi because it dawned on me the auction was ending.... beer involved"
ok, have to say it, regardless of anything said in the ad, I have to point out.. the price in the last 15 minutes jumped $1500 (typical on ebay), $800 of it in the last 50 seconds!!!! Knowing how EBay auction bidding works on both sides and how to read the buyer bidding (I made a hell of a fortune when EBay Motors went live!!) and having been in an auction environment 2 days a week for 22 years.... You got caught up in the auction and clearly turned buying into a contest of who will flinch first, it's called impulse buying. He out bid me, well BOOM, back at you. ANY AUCTION, WELL BEFORE IT ENDS, you appraise, you read the market to see if its trending up or down when you can, you set your limit, you put it in, and you live by it...if you win you win, if you dont you dont! You do this so you don't do exactly what happened, get wrapped up in the moment or in a "pissing contest". Sorry for the language.... just using standard industry terms in the car business.
Regardless of buyer or listing information, buyers remorse happens daily and commonly, and it's NEVER the fault of the person the buyer sees in the mirror.... it's always "they" did something to me, never I did something to me. Not to be a smart ass, but no guns, duress, family held for ransom, and/or blackmail was brought to bear on the buyer to "force him" to A. Buy this boat and B. bid that much for what even a casual online vehicle buyer would see in a description with red flags. Sorry veedubtek, not trying to kick you even more while you're down and I understand your frustration and anger. (and betting you have literally said the same thing to yourself!!!)
Now the other side that alarms me or makes me go huh?
"80yo old man with cancer just show up one day months after we last talked... did i mention he was 80?...and had lung cancer?... and he just shows up? "
..... ok, Do people take an inch and go a mile, absolutely! Do they take an inch, and out of the blue, months later, show up at your place with "no idea he was coming", dragging a boat hundreds of miles, and just out of the blue show up for you to buy/sell it??? (language warning) Get the fuck out of here!
old man, 80, cancer, brings boat, sure. No damn way you didn't facilitate him coming.... how would he even FIND OUT WHERE TO GO!!!! lol You might not have known he was coming that soon, but after no contact for months? Im guessing, you talked a few times, he told you the boat needed a little work (never the motor is blown to hell, it just needs a little tlc... general public are the biggest liars in any vehicle deal 99% of the time), you made some non-committal comments on a monday afternoon phone call, you assumed he might contact you a week or two later and you would then back out or beg off or some other thing to not deal with it, and then something along the lines of you talk on monday afternoon and weds morning he shows up! That I can see, I've been there!
Now hes 80, did i mention he has cancer?, and here is this boat. You good guy it, because you backed yourself into a corner you didnt even want to be in in the first damn place and the boat that needs a little tlc,
1. you see it needs a LOT of TLC and money OR
2.you glanced at it, he was ok with "get what you can out of it", and you gave 5 minute eye appraisal info as a seller OR
3. you bought the damn thing at a price so low you didn't have to care about condition and just no reserved it to ditch it.
3 seems most likely. Did you lie.. no. Did you do your diligence to provide full disclosure or even reasonable disclosure as a 100% seller... no.
Call me a liar on this part, you had your son clean the boat and eyeball maybe even tinker with the boat, did I mention hes 18?? and you took what he said, what the old man with cancer said, painted lipstick on a pig you bought cheap as ... cheap!, never dreamed it would go that high, happy it did, (and nothing wrong with that, bad buyers are ebayers dream) but now having some backlash because we both know you didn't do what you should have to sell the boat.... hence whatever veebudtek needs you will get it to him at cost because you feel bad because you have guilt knowing you slacked off on this one plus you've already made your money so getting him what he needs at cost won't cost you a dime other than time to save your rep here. It happens. If you feel so bad, take half of what you made net, send veedubtek a check. I know, we know, just sayin. lol
I would recommend both of you have a drink, sit back, learn a lesson, and move on.
(quick edit... I literally never ever refused to tell someone exactly what I had in a car! Thats no bs. If they had enough nerve to ask, I would tell them. I lived by the code you make your money when you buy a car, not when you sell it. Buy right, you dont have to work very hard to sell right!)