Yeap.
Went to UofL in '98 (at 17yrs old) with a full ride. That stuck for about 5 semesters and I quit. Delivering pizzas with my buddies and getting $13/hr at a drafting job was plenty for me. Naivety at it's best right there. Married in late '09. Went back in '11 (at 30yrs old). Quit my job, had a kid and started a second round of college within 6 weeks. Took loans to fund both the household expenses and the schooling (tuition, books, fees, etc). Worked pizza delivery 45hrs a week nights/weekends to make ends meet. Caught a break and got a decently paying job that was a click above an internship in '12 and they let me "flex time" to get school done. upon graduation I was looking at $55k-ish in loans (some used to pay the mortgage and buy food) and a yearly income of ~$55k/yr. Was there until '17 when I left for small startup and made $250k/yr salary for about 6mo, realized the place was a shitshow, and left in early '18 for my current position which was $62k salary and ~$10k bonus. Second kid showed up 2 weeks after I left the startup. Tried to leave there in '20, and took a counter offer that put me at $82k base, and ~$25k bonus (performance based). Part of that counter involved getting my MBA, so I'm in school now. Company is dropping ~$9k/semester ($27k/yr) on my masters. I have around $38k remaining on my school loans last I checked. I haven't had to make a payment since Feb of '20. COVID hold, and now I'm back in school so they're on hold again. Averaging about $150/yr in interest by not paying. I'm OK with that.
That drop back from the startup to the current position is where I learned about lifestyle inflation, the fact that student loans can be refinanced, and how "On Track Earnings" are NOT the same as salary. Lots of bad decisions in there if you really think about it. Had zero guidance from anyone else once I enrolled in school back in '98. The rest has been on me. The only really advice I got on any of my decisions between quitting in '01 or so was from grandad and it was "Man you really fucked up not staying in school, when are you going back?"
I don't consider UofL Speed Scientific Engineering (first round), or Purdue Polytechnic (second round: Bachelors in Mechanical Engineering Technology) to be "elite" or "party" or "big name" schools. Purdue maybe based on the name alone, but the experience was much different. The Purdue campus I attended is a single building in partnership with IU Southeast Campus for core classes. I graduated with 15 or so others out of a student body of about 200 or so. It's a local tech school that offers high value degrees. As an adult going back, knowing I was going to foot the bill, I wanted to make sure I was getting that value. Likewise I went through with 155 credit hours in 4 years time and a 3.98 GPA. I WANTED to be there that time, and it showed. Likewise, the workload was seemingly small compared to some companies I had been at.
I've learned a lot of these life lessons in a "trial by fire" type situation. I'm working hard to make sure my boys don't do this stupid shit, and I'm working hard to spread some of my good fortune around instead of inflating my lifestyle again. We'll see if I make it or not.
I won't be paying any more than I have to on my loans until this relief gets settled/sorted. Much like tax laws, funding programs, or anything else, and regardless of where anyone stands on it. If the benefit exists, I'm going to try and get it. While others might think I'm slapping them in the face for making the decision to take a handout, I'm just going to rely on the same premise of "You made your choices, you have to live with them. Sorry it didn't work as well in your favor as mine". With that said, i fully expect any legislature at this level to get blocked/cancelled/filibustered or otherwise squashed. Even just taking a popular poll in this thread, I think those of us making noise about getting student debt cancelled are likely in the minority. Hell, almost all the sitting republicans voted AGAINST the baby formula aid. That was for frickin BABIES! No way there gonna give some liberal minded yaywho's like us the time of day to get student loans for higher education forgiven. I'll end up paying these off in time.