IMO the biggest mistake made is unwillingness to turn back. I still firmly believe if you can’t run around 20 mph at a minimum you need to turn back. This trip shouldn’t be north of 3 hours unless you stop for an extended time (swimming, clearing weeds, etc.). I didn’t include refueling because you shouldn’t have too (key word shouldn’t). There is nothing wrong with regrouping and taking another shot later in the day or waiting for another day. It actually should be apart of the planning process.
@Andy S is a prime example this year. He has crossed on small boats more then most on this forum I would imagine, and made a decision to leave his boat in Nassau for a few days. He went out, it was to rough, and turned back. My bet is after 200 miles he didn’t want, desire, or expect to have to make that decision but he did.
Prepare your boat accordingly from a safety perspective, over prepare the crew mentally for a beating, don’t overload the boat, and be willing to alter your schedule if needed. I also believe a group should cross with no more then 4 boats. It’s hard to track and potentially help what you can’t easily keep in your vision.
Side note: In 2017, I crossed with
@1948Isaac a few days after the main group crossing and we rode in the low 20s pretty much the entire trip. It was the most annoying crossing I have experienced. My wife was on his boat and she was soaked when we arrived. With that said, there was no bow cover, nothing broke, didn’t have to refuel, but we did get tossed for nearly 3 hours. Had it been worse I would have turned around and that is kind of the foundation to my belief around maintaining a speed of 20 or better. If you can’t you/crew are going to hate it and worry all week about crossing back, your boat is probably taking more of a beating then it should increasing the chances of a failure, and then fuel starts to become an issue.
Sounds like an easy decision to make but it’s actually a tough decision when everything is planned, you’re excited, you want to accomplish something you prepared for months, others are out there, etc. Now, if everyone is running well and you’re the only one that can stay 20 or better then you might just need push the gas and suck it up a little but that’s another situation into itself.